Yes, you have to listen. (take it from me-haha) What can you do INSTEAD of contacting him? What helps you to keep your mind off of him? What has helped you be successful in not contacting him in the past? k
You need to decide what to focus on...aren't you at WORK??
JK!!!! I know how THAT can be at times.
Hi Pam, haven't had a whole lot of time for the BB of late, silly as I'm on holidays, but it's been soooo nice here I've been keeping busy around the house/yard.
As for self control...well I'm not your best advisor either, but we all know that YOU know what to do by now!
Yep, I'm at work! Have kept my mind busy today so far though.
Would you believe I am trying to plan a weekend vacation?
I haven't had ANY relaxation like that in 3 years!!!!
Have these awesome cabins on the river that have a lot of bedrooms so going to try to get a group together, won't cost much that way, and go relax and enjoy!!!
I know I know what to do. Just was wishing it was easy. But I have been good today.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Last night I got all the bug things pulled off of one of my Norway Spruce's. Yuck. But hopefully it will live with no problem. I know it isn't really my house anymore but I do still love the place.
Still wasn't feeling too great so didn't get a lot done inside the house last night. Hopefully tonight and this weekend get some more cleaning and organizing done.
Sent an e-mail yesterday to the place with the cabins and got one back from the wife to send my phone number so the H could call me about dates cabin available. Well before I got my phone number sent he called. He said, "oh yeah I remember you!" It was in 2002 that I made arrangements for CHL and I to go there as a Christmas gift to him. We went in January before he filed for D in March.
But I was the one that handled all the details and met the guy to pick up the key to the cabin. He never met CHL at all. Anyway it was just sort of nice to know I was remembered.
Hope one of these dates will work out because I want a break!!!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
The papers came today. Here I thought he was waiting to sign them and he signed them the very day his attorney got them from mine.
Mine has apparently just not been sending them to me. Here we have had these I thought sort of fun lighthearted phone conversations and all along we have been divorced and I didn't know it.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
