Hi, just a quick update. The weather has been so nice here that I have been outside most of the time. Things are wonderful.
I am db'ing constantly. I send him a note via email every few days just wishing him a good day. I don't call him...I let him call me. I am going places and doing things with church pals all the time. He has to wonder what I am doing...but not like before when I was drinking...now, I bike, I walk on the beach, I go to church barbeques, and go yard sale-ing with the girls! I have truly "gotten a life." Sundays I go to church without worrying about whether he will go or not. He has actually come a few times on his own!
I think for him, it was money that made him stay in the marriage at first, but now I think he is falling in love with me all over again.
Hugs and prayers...God is gracious and kind and loving! Akgal
H is pouting a bit ...but that's ok. He out of the blue mentioned a fishing trip he was going on with the guys...instead of getting angry...I told him I would make some plans for myself during that time. He was rather put off...but I could only tell by his voice as he hurriedly got off the phone....he didn't know how to act when I responded rather than reacted.
I am so glad things are going well for you. I'm glad that you have put so much old, messy stuff behind you, and you've come up with a new, fresher you! (New improved formula, as they say on cleaning liquids, heh heh!)
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
