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Well, well I go away for awhile and the lockmonster gets me.

Nothing really new to report. H is intent on buying the bass boat he's been looking at the last few nights. H called me this morning at my "post" and we chatted awhile.

H is still friendly, making a step forward. AND, THIS is where I tend to get sucked in, but am focussing on NOT going there, having no expectations at this point. I like what "slowly" posted to someone "plan on at least two years" to work the R out again or some words along that line. I'm finding what works the best is if I focus on "today" to not even think beyond today. Today I can handle. If I get too far ahead of myself, then I seem to get myself in to trouble.

So work has been fun the last few days. And after this week I have a golf outing to get organized!! that is a week from Monday.

This summer is just flying by...feel like we're not going to have much of one either.

Cathy

P.S. Pam I'm putting this up at 1:49 pm central time...and I'm giving you a minute or less to be #1...hey what am I saying you are #1!

?#1?

oh my you beat Pam.

Cathy

Link to me last thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=719327&page=1&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=31&fpart=1

Not pretty I know.

Cathy

Gee Cathy,

It took you over half the day to start another thread!

I was around a bit this morning then the bb seemed slow so I signed off and now find you have started a new thread and I'm like what 3rd???

Hi Pam,

I was out of the office and wasn't able to log on, but could see the site... I was locked out and had to wait till I came back to my office to start a new thread.

Glad you're back on.

Cathy

Well, I had to pick since I totally missed you!!!

I am glad you have started a new thread Ms. Queen of Patience!

I too had problems posting this morning! But I finally posted and I mentioned you in my post!

Thanks for the chat!

XOXO
Deb

I miss being able to post every day, feel like I have lots to share, but am forgetting the day to day things.

H has let me know two days in a row that he's had to leave for work early

We've been trying to coordinate a weekend to go up north to my brother's cabin. It was going to be this weekend, but now H is going to work. My brother was going to be up there for a day and H right away said no he wasn't going to go then. But then the last time we talked, before H knew he had to work, H asked ME what I wanted to do?

We then talked about going to a baseball game on Sunday. H said no if he had his new boat he'd be fishing to which I replied "we're going fishing with you then" it's Father's Day. H said big deal.

He's given me his tentative plans for the next few weekend, fishing if he gets his new bass boat, which is in the works.

For some reason I have this feeling that the bass boat is going to become the OW...not sure why. Probably becuase when he had a bass boat years ago, I would refer to it as his girlfriend as it was where he spent all his time.


I said if you don't have your boat do you want to go to the baseball game? If not, I want to give the tix back. H said "we don't have to decide right now do we" to which I said no.

Last night H mowed the lawn, showed me how to use the weedwacker, which I requested. H was very pleasant and has been since Tuesday.

We talk on the phone during the day and he's actually quite nice, like he likes me.

Last night in bed, I must have gotten too close to H. H said to me "get away from me, get back on your side of the bed!!!" Let me tell you I got as far away as I could. He was on the edge of the bed and I was on my edge of the bed...we have a king size bed, too!!

Question: Does anyone think $250 is a lot to spend on a comforter for our bed? I'd more than likely keep it forever. I've never spent that much, but the one I have picked out...I LOVE IT!!!

Cathy