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HD,

I tend toward long responses, but I'll keep it short and sweet this time.

That sucks!

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Here's an idea for Ms. Anal:

I got sick of seeing hand towels stuffed in the towel bar willy nilly so I ripped the t.b. out of the wall and installed (well ok H did that part) hooks. That way, you just hang them up and problemo solved.

OR, you could have just tossed the towel to her and told her to do it the "proper" way since she is the only one who knows the double top secret hanging method.

But see.......I'm a b*tch.
An easygoing b*tch, but a b*tch nonetheless.

Boy would I like to march in your house sometime and tell her what she's missing out on by focusing on hand towels instead of more useful things to do with hands.

She'd prolly just tell me to go to bed.

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Well, I see the loser club is meeting early this am...pull up a chair for me.
H is sick, with a cold, the poor baby...did I mention he is 6'1", 200 lbs, in perfect shape and has enough energy to work out most days...but a simple cold and he's down for the count...

And I'm the needy one?????

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I don't like the moniker "loser club." Remember, it's our spouses who are the ones losing out on the wonderful experience of loving our bodies. Maybe the "Dud Spouses Society."

Hey journey, I just wanted to tell you that it takes a lot more than a cold to take my libido away. Fever over 102 degrees or possibly a ruptured disc in my back, maybe, but a cold? Gimme a break.

Hairdog - who tripped on one of DD3's toys last night and pulled his hamstring. Limping this morning, but ready for action, nevertheless.


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Oh Boy, I just have to chime in here........ when my H is sick he is like the biggest baby, he will not ask for anything, just walk around and huff and puff like I'm supposed to know what he wants. Then when I ask if he needs anything hes like..... No thank you. I finally got to the point where if its his problem I ignore it.

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Right, a cold slows him down. Sheesh. The only time something like that slows me down is when I lose my voice. I'm a customer service rep and that kinda makes me useless at work.

I am also in the "unloved" this am as it is that time of the month for my W and we haven't had sex during that point for well over a decade. A BJ is not at option as I've gotten one of those since the kiddo arrived. He's 9 in July, sigh. I don't even get hugs during that time of the month.

There doesn't whining make us all feel better.

Scott


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Hi Scott...
I have to say, that even in my HD state I do not want to be touched during the first few days of my P... I just want to be left alone ( not that H has any problem with that)...
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A cold doesn't bother me too much either, as far as sex is concerned. H used to NEVER be up for sex while having a cold but he has changed his view on this in the last year. (go H!)
We both have colds right now and that may have played into thing last night too. But I really think it was a mind-overload thing going on with him. Couldn't possibly even THINK about sex.

And he was complaining pretty bitterly last night about not having any time to himself. I'm not sure there is anything that can be done about this, as it is pretty much our life stage at the moment--little kids suck up every spare moment with their neediness and helplessness.

I am waffling back and forth between thinking about seducing him tonight (or trying to, lol) and just leaving him alone til the chaos in his mind subsides.

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Wonder why it is, Me a HD would find sex when my mind is overloaded relaxing, but the LD considers it more overload? Heck, physical activity is proven to stimulate the mind and body. Drs all tell you to exercise in order to take away stress.

Annette -- who would love to exercise something

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You know, Journey. If I got the kind of attention during the rest of the month that women like you crave to give, I'd be more that happy to provide a few days of space.

Tom - who's in the love deficit column this morning because his W is in that time of life. Then again, she's been leading up to it for some 25 years.

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