It's like I lined them up and you knocked them down! Thank you, honeypot and mojo for the great replies. I'm not too certain about the erotica because she is completely "booked out" right now because of PM and Paget. Anyway, we all know that the only thing we should be doing is expressing our desires. And, if my desire is for her to be more horny, I will do anything that SHE asks of me to help her achieve that. But I won't try to invent and present possible solutions without her asking me for help first.
Like honey said, I need to just keep poking away.
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-Steven Wright
Quote: And, if my desire is for her to be more horny, I will do anything that SHE asks of me to help her achieve that. But I won't try to invent and present possible solutions without her asking me for help first.
I guess I'm imagining that maybe she does know what turns her on but is ashamed/embarrassed/reluctant to admit it to you and maybe even herself. I am relatively HD and not very uptight but I've had persistent, obsessive fantasies that I've been embarrassed to admit. I have some that I still wouldn't admit. Perhaps in some situations, the inability to admit to many/any of her own fantasies would make a woman LD. I am just suggesting the books as a way to ease communication since there are certain common fantasies women share, not as a way for you to solve her problems by creating a fantasy life for her.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
