Do you feel that all women think men only want to have sex with them? If so, why do you think they feel that way?
Yes I think it's pretty safe to say if a man asks/takes a girl out, he probably wants to have sex with her. And unless the girl was born yesterday, she knows it.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
Do you feel that all women think men only want to have sex with them? If so, why do you think they feel that way?
Yes I think it's pretty safe to say if a man asks/takes a girl out, he probably wants to have sex with her. And unless the girl was born yesterday, she knows it.
What if I told you asked girls out, took them out, and didn't want to have sex with them? I also didn't want another date with them.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Do you feel that all women think men only want to have sex with them? If so, why do you think they feel that way?
Yes I think it's pretty safe to say if a man asks/takes a girl out, he probably wants to have sex with her. And unless the girl was born yesterday, she knows it.
What if I told you asked girls out, took them out, and didn't want to have sex with them? I also didn't want another date with them.
Yep, I have too. When we went out they turned me off so much with their personalities that I lost any and all attraction for them.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
How is it going? You getting settled into the new year?
For weeks into a new year I’d continue to write the past year on documents, cheques, and such. It would take a few weeks for my habit to catch up with the calendar.
Hope you have a grand day.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
Yes settled into the new year and I’m happy and focused. Work is going great! S is thriving here with me. D was over for dinner tonight.
I have been clarifying my understanding with L some of the ramifications as I consider the approach I want to take.
Running has been going well all things considered. Overdid it a bit got a little hurt but thankfully not injured so kept walking everyday and now running again but more gently and gradually.
Oh what’s her name went away again. I ignored her.
IMO a major part of the DB process is about being consistent with your actions. One minute you have her over for Christmas breakfast and the next you are ignoring her. What side of the fence are you on Rock?
To clarify if you said “ I am not going to spend Christmas together with you while you are currently stepping outside our marriage “ then ignoring her is being congruent with your word.
I do see that. Basically, she had inserted herself into Christmas morning and then complained when we changed the plan (I made it clear to my kids they were my priority). She said,”that’s the only day we are going to be together for Christmas and now you have moved it to be at D’s.” Even then I left it up to D if she wanted to have her mom there. I would have preferred it without W.
We made our plans with D and she invited her mom. It had an impact on what our Christmas morning was. Eldest son kept his distance the whole time, not surfacing until she left. I understand she is back from her trip. Havent talked to her.
