Piecing Friends, I expressed my concern regarding resuming a sexual relationship with my W. We are now four months into Piecing. She moved back to Ohio from Florida two weeks ago.
My worry is that she might have engaged in risky behavior during our separation--meaning an EA. I would like some reassurance from her that I don't have a risk of contracting a STD, or AIDS. I'm not pushing her to reveal an EA; it's mainly a health concern. I expressed my concern to her earlier this week, and the conversation seemed to go OK. I think she appreciated my forthrightness.
We're planning on resuming our weekly ritual of a Saturday date night. She loves going to movies, and views me as a fun date partner. This is a strength of ours.
We've also had discussions regarding my family reunion trip, plans for her to return to work, what to do when winter arrives in Ohio, my resuming playing tennis for recreation and social connection on Friday nights at the local racquet club, and working on our sexual relationship, where we've had prior problems. I'll go into some of these topics in a later post.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
