well, had our d dance recital yesterday. i was waiting for my sister outside and saw ex and told him where I had saved seats-even though last year his family didn't save a seat for me. then all during the recital, i was kicking myself that i did. we all were talking, like we were not even divored--i want to distance myself but i cant!! after everyone left except my sister and neice and we were all hugry oh ex was there hugging my sister telling her how much he misses her and asked what we were doing, i said probably get a pizza and go back to my place and then i go and ask why, next thing you know, me, sister, d and neice are following him to friendlys and he brought us all supper. my d didn't want to stay at my house since she stayed over with me last night. i told her i want her to get in the habit of staying over everyother weekend. ok said he was going to take her and go food shopping, i told him no, shes tired and needs a shower, so she will be spending overnight with me and he just said ok. i;m thinking about two things: if i keep having d, maybe he will miss her and being a family and if he does have this extra time, he may date the tenant more but then reaslize how hard it is to date when you have kids.
NEED OPINIONS PLEASE..... yesterday, my daughter was upset and she told me that well she was helping my ex sister in-law and mother-in-law go through a bag of old clothes that I had given them to send to Poland, they started talking about me and how they miss the good old days, and how they wish things were back to the way they used to be and that it is too bad that I don't want to work things out! Now my daughter knows that I wanted to work it out and that her dad wants to keep things the way they are. She told them that she wanted to set them straight, but that she didn't. I told her that I was glad that she didn't because she shouldn't get in the middle of this. But now I want to set the record straight!!!!!!!! I was tossing and turning all night over it. Should I tell his mother that I wanted to work things out and that her son doesn't or should I confront my ex and tell him--not that he would tell her the truth, but just to let him know or just shut up and let it go??????
