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Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 SteveLW #2906799 10/27/20 12:53 PM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	Originally Posted by Steve85 Originally Posted by Ginger1 I didn�t realize she had an affair ON YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!!! That�s a low that�s on a totally different level. Good lord Total lack of respect. Scott, it really is amazing you two have made it this long. Uuum think you have wrong thread Steve. M made it 3 months.

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 LH19 #2906806 10/27/20 01:50 PM
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SteveLW Member S Joined: Feb 2018 Posts: 9,829 Likes: 240	Originally Posted by LH19 Originally Posted by Steve85 Originally Posted by Ginger1 I didn�t realize she had an affair ON YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!!! That�s a low that�s on a totally different level. Good lord Total lack of respect. Scott, it really is amazing you two have made it this long. Uuum think you have wrong thread Steve. M made it 3 months. Yeah sorry, that was meant for Mumin. And my point was that I would have filed for D the minute I found out about the wedding day thing. M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906822 10/27/20 04:04 PM
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OP Mumin Member M Joined: Jan 2020 Posts: 574 Likes: 5	Ok, thanks for "input" W wrote, hope I didn't upset you too much. Not sure what to write to her. Leaning towards something like this. Unless you have remorse or have left OM I don't want to talk to you about us anymore. Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906828 10/27/20 04:27 PM
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LH19 Member L Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 9,227 Likes: 309	How about �not at all�

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906835 10/27/20 05:05 PM
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SteveLW Member S Joined: Feb 2018 Posts: 9,829 Likes: 240	Originally Posted by Mumin Ok, thanks for "input" W wrote, hope I didn't upset you too much. Not sure what to write to her. Leaning towards something like this. Unless you have remorse or have left OM I don't want to talk to you about us anymore. I vote for no response at all. She didn't ask if you were upset, she made a statement. M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906841 10/27/20 05:40 PM
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OP Mumin Member M Joined: Jan 2020 Posts: 574 Likes: 5	Quote She didn't ask if you were upset, she made a statement. This is true, thanks Steve! Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906860 10/27/20 08:41 PM
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BenB Member B Joined: May 2019 Posts: 288	Originally Posted by Mumin Unless you have remorse or have left OM I don't want to talk to you about us anymore. In my opinion, an answer like that would ruin everything and put you back to square one. You are basically saying "if you ever decide to leave OM, I am here and ready to take you back" Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906870 10/27/20 10:04 PM
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OP Mumin Member M Joined: Jan 2020 Posts: 574 Likes: 5	Also true. Thanks Ben! More messages... "we can talk more tomorrow if you want... bla bla..." "However I look at it I beleive this apartment is an important step in the long-term, for all of us" "So I will buy it bla bla bla" "OR what do you think?" a few minutes later "I dont know what you are thinking or if you want to say. But I prefer to hear what you are thinking" She is basically asking me if she should buy the apartment. Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 Mumin #2906880 10/28/20 02:16 AM
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ovrrnbw Member O Joined: May 2018 Posts: 2,681 Likes: 3 Missouruh	Just tell her she should do what she feels is right. She'll take it from there. H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19 It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.

Re: Finalizing D and moving on #5 ovrrnbw #2906922 10/28/20 01:32 PM
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SteveLW Member S Joined: Feb 2018 Posts: 9,829 Likes: 240	Originally Posted by ovrrnbw Just tell her she should do what she feels is right. She'll take it from there. PERFECTION. M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018

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