Debra, My situation is different from yours as I am HD and my W is LD but I do have a little experience of OW and I can say that I still think about her - going through "what-ifs" in my head etc. even though I havn't seen her for two years. I am HD and I have easily enough love to share and I love my W more than ever but there is still a bit of my heart that belongs to OW. If your H is LD then perhaps his OWs have more of his heart than you do at this time and he may be having difficulty coming to terms with his decisions which will have been harder than mine (I did not live with my OW). I suggest you use differentiation (read PM) to draw him back in. I hope this helps. SD
