I like the measured, calm expressions by you both here. Although it is a little surreal for your spouse to opine on their difficulty in leaving an affair partner, it seems that you handled it well. Enjoy your day!
Last edited by job; 04/13/2002:03 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.