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Re: what DB approaches are right for me? oceangrl #2882220 01/24/20 11:06 PM
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Newbie20 Member N Joined: Nov 2019 Posts: 160	I'm on 2+ years. Our situations/feelings are so alike it's like we are married to the same person. I tell myself that I made it to 32 without this idiot in my life, what is the problem now?

Re: what DB approaches are right for me? AnotherStander #2882233 01/24/20 11:49 PM
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sandi2 Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1	Quote Originally Posted by FlySolo There was a poster who collected all the stories which ended up in R (I can't remember who though). Mozza's Success Stories. I typed in the link, but had no luck. It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!

Re: what DB approaches are right for me? sandi2 #2882234 01/24/20 11:51 PM
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Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Originally Posted by sandi2 Mozza's Success Stories. I typed in the link, but had no luck. https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2581617 "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: what DB approaches are right for me? Newbie20 #2882325 01/25/20 08:19 PM
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OP oceangrl Member O Joined: Jan 2020 Posts: 162	Originally Posted by Newbie20 I'm on 2+ years. Our situations/feelings are so alike it's like we are married to the same person. I tell myself that I made it to 32 without this idiot in my life, what is the problem now? It is great not to be alone, though I am so sorry either of us have similar stories, LOL! I spent my whole life being codependent and the last couple years thinking I would die if he didn't pick me or love me more than her. I h ave worked SO HARD and am so proud of myself for loving myself more and more and getting my own life. I don' t react as much like I used to. I can own my own feelings. I have to talk to him this weekend about the work situation. I am trying to really prepare myself ahead of time, not be too emotional, keep it simple, not try to persuade him to see things my way, not going into it thinking it's going to bomb...or succeed. the best apology is changed behavior. *************** me: 45 h: 48 m: 23 T: 26 DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019

Re: what DB approaches are right for me? Ready2Change #2882453 01/27/20 03:38 AM
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ovrrnbw Member O Joined: May 2018 Posts: 2,681 Likes: 3 Missouruh	Originally Posted by Ready2Change Google this: Nevermind I found it, lots of clicking. New Thread: Today is such a hard day Last edited by job; 02/16/20 10:30 PM. Reason: added link to new thread/removed another site info H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19 It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.

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