W has initiated R talks twice in the past week and it is more of the same. Too little too late, Why now, Torn, Angry, etc. She had made it clear she wants nothing to do with me outside of the kids.
I do not know how to stress to you that this is a good sign.
Keep making positive changes to you. Quickly get to a point that you are happy she is saying these things you. When the spouse is indifferent then you need to worry even more.
This is one big test of how you handle stressful things. Pass the test.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
You are still trying to apply logic to an emotional problem. Don't.
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Let me give you some counsel, bastard,“ Lannister said. „Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strenght. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.
You can choose to let this "hurt" you or to consider yourself iron in the fire, becoming stronger. Whichever you choose, you're right.
W has initiated R talks twice in the past week and it is more of the same. Too little too late, Why now, Torn, Angry, etc. She had made it clear she wants nothing to do with me outside of the kids.
I do not know how to stress to you that this is a good sign.
Keep making positive changes to you. Quickly get to a point that you are happy she is saying these things you. When the spouse is indifferent then you need to worry even more.
This is one big test of how you handle stressful things. Pass the test.
Thank you for the advice. I really needed it today.
