Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
I just read your post and many of the replies. I've been in your shoes totally! I had an amazing relationship with a man who was physically separated from his W for 2 years before divorcing. It was the most amazing relationship I've ever experienced - I had finally found my soul mate in more ways than can be described. The communication was great, the physical aspect was incredible, and I felt whole again. However, he was having such a terrible time dealing with the guilt of breaking up the home with his kids that he recently went back to his W for the sake of the kids. So, all fantasies and dreams went out the window. It was like he forgot the whole reason they spent 5 years in therapy, 2 years in different homes, and time dating other people.
I will not sit here and say that I agree with his decision because I don't. We had plans for a future and I now don't know what to think. From my experience, I can tell you that it is tough to see thru the love clouds and understand the real vs. the fantasy. I'm not even close to being past the hurt right now...it still hurts to breathe. But I have no choice but to try to look at this as the right time to truthfully evaluate what I need in my life. My heart tells me I'd take him back in a heartbeat (if that was even an option) but my brain is telling me to stop and think.
