H told me few days ago it’s scary that I don’t react anymore . He’s waiting for a fight that never comes . I’m wondering if I’ve fallen into either just not caring about what he does . Almost like I’m at peace with his huge flaws or is it I’m just really starting to not care .
Last edited by Cadet; 12/28/1901:06 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
What do you think would be the difference between being at peace with his flaws or not caring? Being at peace with them is like still loving him in spite of his flaws (or flaws and all) and not caring is like you don't really love him anymore?
Does his behavior affect you negatively?
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Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
