I run I to this conflict often and it’s probably why my dating pool has shrunk. I am 39 and capable of having kids, but I am for sure done. I’ve been raising a child on my own since infancy and I can’t see myself doing it all over again at this age. If I didn’t have a child, I would probably be thinking differently.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.