Yes the kids know. They are very sad and unhappy with the situation. As am I. It really hurts that I wont have ny kids with me 100% of the time.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
The WW was arguing via text. She said "you know you have been enjoying the single life, dont act like you have any intention of staying married to me"
I responded with "I sure have been enjoying life because I am responsible for my own happiness and I am not acting. I do not want to stay married to you."
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
Im so close to being done with this woman. I am sp amxious to be done with this horrible chapter of my life.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
So I was getting ready for bed and WW came and knocked on the door. She asked if we could talk. I said sure.
She came in my room and told me that I dont have to move out. She said that we can still get divorced and that she will pay me and she will continue to live upstairs.
She said she doesnt want me to feel like she is forcing me out. Good lord. She must not remember the last year of emotional abuse where she made me feel completely unwanted.
I told her that I know she isnt making me move but I am moving out. She asked why. I told her that I need to move on with my life without her.
She started crying and said she truly is sorry again. I said ok and that I am past the hurt and now I just need to get on woth my life. She just started crying harder and left the room.
Sorry WW. That boat sailed when I was the one crying nightly and you didnt care.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
So I get up to go to work and it snowed like crazy. Work delayed until 2pm. Stuck in the house with WW. Ugh.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
WW is now threatening to manipulate the custody of the kids.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
WW is now threatening to manipulate the custody of the kids.
ST, you have been doing great at facing down her threats and attempts at manipulation, excellent responses. The crying is just her go-to since threats weren't working. When threats fail try crying, when that fails, well it's back to threats. Just stand firm and tell her you have no intention to accept anything less on custody and will gladly fight her in court for your rights.
