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Thinking of you and your family ~ stay strong


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Forgot to add. The physician in me sees this as black and white. She made a decision to withdraw from the M and doesn't love me anymore. The DB in me sees a frail human in a time of great need who needs help. It's a real catch 22.

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Originally Posted by Hamburg
Forgot to add. The physician in me sees this as black and white. She made a decision to withdraw from the M and doesn't love me anymore. The DB in me sees a frail human in a time of great need who needs help. It's a real catch 22.
She is wearing her "do not resuscitate" wrist-band.


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Originally Posted by Hamburg
Forgot to add. The physician in me sees this as black and white. She made a decision to withdraw from the M and doesn't love me anymore. The DB in me sees a frail human in a time of great need who needs help. It's a real catch 22.
She is wearing her "do not resuscitate" wrist-band.



Yes. I am done being a shoulder to cry on and we are not even speaking.

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I would leave her to stew in her own pot of juices. I certainly wouldn't bend over backwards to try to talk to her right now. As I mentioned early, continue moving forward and keep the focus on you and what you need to get through the holidays.

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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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