You are not in a hurry C. You don’t want R with W now, take your time. You really have more important things coming soon. Do you have any way to get your kids into IC? Some Lw advice?
As I am sure I don't want a R, should I petition for D myself now? Will it make any difference?
What do you mean "make any difference"??
Legally? - I think thats a question for your lawyer. With your W? - If you have to ask, then I dont think you are ready to file. For you? - I dont know....you tell us! Being divorced didnt really change anything for me.
Please start a new thread. Also, please link this thread to your new one and vice versa. Many thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.