My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your loved one. I pray that she looks down and sees that she has no worries about watching over you from time to time.
Projection is a stinker, isn't it? You have to admire the thought process of which they use to justify why their life is not going the right way (a touch of sarcasm there).
I have looked back a few weeks in my sitch and can pinpoint when I haven't DB'd like I should. But DB is a process. It is not an exact process as it is not mistake proof. But if the process is followed, less and less non DB actions become apparent.
Keep the chin up my friend. Its not the end of the world. Only when you eyes close for the very last time, and that time is not coming soon!
Be well!
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
How is your situation lately? Any improvement from your W? Try to find happy activities to do. Don't agree to move out. Your W is the one who does not want to work on your M. She should try to live alone and find out whether it is what she wanted.
Hey buddy, Good to see your still kicking. Sorry to hear on the Grandmther. If I would be so bold as to say: let her push the divorce as much as she wants. I just dont want to see you caught in a mess like Im in. These things take so long anyway that you wont have to suffer like I am trying to "get it done". The further along you are, in 6 months the better in my book. I think you will reach my state of mind soon Merrick. Maybe your closer already than I think? Anyway take care, I'll be in touch....God Bless, eddy KOFTGF
Is it possible that your W is depressed? Your W looks very much like a depressed person.
It is very difficult when somebody is depressed, he/she will put all the blame to his/her love one. She regreted married to you. Every outlook to the future is grey. SHe is very unhappy.
I have the same dillema and try to convince my W to seek professional help. But until now she is refusing help. May be you could try with your W?
