How many Lawyers do you plan on meeting with? I believe 3 should be the MINIMUM. I still like the idea of meeting with the TOP, BEST lawyers in your area.
Free consults, fact gathering meetings. Have a list of questions drawn up on a piece of paper. Take notes during meeting.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
He texted me and said he was trying to make it over here before baby went to sleep. I said no worries I’ll keep her up. He was here pretty quickly and gave D a bath. He said he was going to get his dirty clothes while he was here. I said “oh ok you don’t want to wash them?”
He said no I’ll wash them at (he named the friend he’s staying with). He asked for a garbage bag to put them in and I said I had already separated all of his and put them in the hamper and that he could keep the hamper and take it with him. And I told him his clean clothes I put with his plastic bin by the front door. He seemed a little quiet and upset but said ok and I asked if he thought we should make a schedule for time with the baby.
He immediately got quiet and upset I could tell. I said we could just go week by week and go off what works with his work schedule. And he said ok and that he makes his own work schedule so he can see her often. He said he will know more tomorrow. Then he asked me where I wanted him to put the baby. And I didn’t understand what he meant, and he said “I’m leaving”. And I was like “oh, I thought you were going to stay with her for a little bit” and he said no not tonight.
He kept hiding his face and when I looked he was crying. And he handed me the baby and said he would be back tomorrow and he left. He was literally maybe here 20 minutes. I don’t know what upset him like that. Maybe the talk of schedule? Was that bad? Arsh suggested it and I feel like it’s a necessity. I hate that he was crying.
That makes me so upset. Now I know this is going to turn into anger and he’s going to be mad again. I’m so confused. Maybe I handled it wrong.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
