You were the one who reached out saying with wanting no animosity, and when she comes back and agrees you tear it apart. So what kind of response were you hoping for? She agreed. If she would have said "I am going to make this as hard as possible, I hope you never find what you want" would that have been better?
What was your expectation regarding the statement she is replying to?
See, you can't put those things out there, then tear apart the "best" answer she could possibly give you. It's a lose lose for YOU.
So, take it for face value, thank her, and move about your day, just like J9 said.
The most prominent of vulnerable narcissism traits is a constant victimization mentality. They are always the victim, and always require sympathetic attention.
They are emotionally draining to be around. Mostly because of how sensitive they are on top of being emotionally demanding. Their mission in life is to get the people around them to see them as the perfect creatures they are.
Vulnerable narcissists are quite prone to developing depression. The life they live does not meet the fantasy of the life they feel entitled to.
How does this currently impact you if you don't see her or keep your interactions with her very minimal?
