I'm a really creepy old guy with a preference for beautiful women in their mid-twenties who are educated, fun loving, witty, passionate and faithful. And, they need to have a well paying job. I'm having difficulty finding real women of substance for friendship, dating and possibly marriage. Do you have any suggestions?
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Back yo bussines, I am happy for you J9. Really happy. You are the lighthouse, and making me tear again. Oh man, I am a disgrace.
Thanks Nef.......it is hard after being with one woman for the past 17 years but I made a real effort last night to just let go and enjoy. I did not think about my ew once and I felt more at ease. The comedy club was really fun and it was cool to see her laugh. She is really cute, shy, and reserved.....very laid back like myself and not high maintenance. So any way just taking it a day at a time but I feel much more comfortable with it. She did ask me questions about my ew so I tried to be as honest as I could but I tried not to dwell on the topic.
During dinner I asked her if she wanted a bite of my food and she said of course. She went to grab her fork but I told her she could use mine, she made some comment about it being ok and I responded with we are going to kiss later so what’s the difference.....:). It was just really nice to be around someone that was into you and made you feel comfortable which is not what I had been dealing with in regards to the ew for so long.
I know that everything for me is going to be great!
Thanks N.........just taking it slow with this one. Her and I are on the same page in that regard. It is nice that both of us are on the same timeline and I can tell that she is just starting to put herself out there as well. In some ways we are both lucky to have found each other and if nothing comes of this at least we had each other to help us move forward with the dating scene and from our former spouses.
On a side note my ew drops the kids of yesterday wearing her Oxford T-shirt that her bf bought when he went to Europe. I was like really are you making an effort to rub this in my face or attempt to get a rise out of me? First the girls and now you? It was actually kind of laughable? Smh.
During dinner I asked her if she wanted a bite of my food and she said of course. She went to grab her fork but I told her she could use mine, she made some comment about it being ok and I responded with we are going to kiss later so what’s the difference.....:). !
Dam, that was smooth......J, you still got your game!
Big whoop, an Oxford T-shirt. Go buy one on Amazon and wear it when you see them and say "This seems to be the new trend, I just wanted to be cool like you guys!!!"
During dinner I asked her if she wanted a bite of my food and she said of course. She went to grab her fork but I told her she could use mine, she made some comment about it being ok and I responded with we are going to kiss later so what’s the difference.....:). !
Dam, that was smooth......J, you still got your game!
Big whoop, an Oxford T-shirt. Go buy one on Amazon and wear it when you see them and say "This seems to be the new trend, I just wanted to be cool like you guys!!!"
Woaaaaaaa, smooooooth operator
Everyone is getting it on in this part of the board
Go go go
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
LOL V........I think we are a long way from getting it on I know she is on a dating website but she just doesn't feel emotionally ready yet. We had a lot of fun at the comedy club but she has not initiated any physical contact. We met at church yesterday morning and you could tell she felt pretty awkward being in front of people that know her story, maybe knew her and her husband as a couple and had her arms folded the whole time to let people know nothing was going on. I texted her afterwards and she admitted as such, that it didn't feel too awkward and that it was good for her.
In her mind she might have been ready but I really don't think she is. If I want to get out of this situation I could use that as a reason why.....I did feel some attraction to her on Friday night but it's hard when you don't think the other person is putting in much effort.
I definitely feel that extreme patience is required with this one but I am not sure if it's worth it. There are a lot of ladies out there who are ready to go!
Ok nothing new......I do have a 3rd date planned with the current girl on Friday. I do have some interest from other ladies as well so if I am interested I assume I should engage right? I don't owe anyone an explanation after 3 dates nor do I need to bring up the conversation either correct? She is not pressuring me and we usually exchange maybe a text or two a day.
That would be funny to do but then she would know it impacted me