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H - thanks for stopping by and updating, congrats! How is the dating life?

It's fun. I've been on dates with 3 different women - only first dates so far.

I've been using online dating. In-person meeting is challenging for an introvert like me. That's not to say I can't do it, and I try to have social outings with guy friends where I have the opportunity to work on my in-person skills with the ladies. It's just that, when you meet someone at a bar, you're meeting someone who goes to bars.

Oddly enough, I saw XW's dating profile on one of the apps I use. Maybe the grass wasn't greener after all.

Did you swipe right or left I bet that was a surreal moment. When I think about my W having a dating profile it make me laugh a little bit. Too funny.

Which apps are you guys using - B or T? or something else?

B for me....bring on the ladies!

Ha! This was in the search section, so there was no swiping. But it would have been a HARD LEFT!



I've used T, M, POF, and OKC. I wanted to use B, but it requires Facebook (which is an evil upon our land).

J & H,

One of the things I make a point to do is talk to every one on come into contact with by asking questions. Checkout clerks, people in elevators etc. That way striking up convos with the ladies is not as difficult.

They call him Rico Suave........

I will try it out.

LH, thanks for pointing that out! I do try to socialize more and "talk to strangers"

On the night of St. Patrick's Day, I found myself at a bar in the French Quarter. The place was full of women with beads. I had none. I set myself a goal of getting a pair of beads by the end of the night. Mission accomplished.

Good job Holding, sounds like you are doing great, keep it up!