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Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help whywhy #2755929 08/10/17 10:00 AM
Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 84 W whywhy OP Member
OP whywhy Member W Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 84	Well, looks like my gut feeling was right. That was a REALLY rough counselling session! She said clearly in it that she is ready to start divorce proceedings now. I asked her where the open mind we agreed is as we try this for a few months, she said mind is fine, but heart is closed. I'm feeling kind of crushed right now! Should I just stop this and get the D? Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????

Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help whywhy #2755939 08/10/17 11:18 AM
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TBSakaJ9 Member T Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 4,560	Should I just stop this and get the D? Only you can answer that question. Is that what you want? Last edited by Cadet; 08/10/17 08:27 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message Married 14, Together 17 M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6 M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR) Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017 Separation Date: 6/17/2017 Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018 Divorce Final: 4/12/2018

Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help TBSakaJ9 #2755990 08/10/17 09:12 PM
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Treasur Member T Joined: Jun 2016 Posts: 584 Likes: 4 UK	Does SHE have a plan that she has shared with you about the D that she wants? Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17

Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help TBSakaJ9 #2756035 08/11/17 02:28 AM
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OP whywhy Member W Joined: Jul 2017 Posts: 84	Hi Joseph9, No it isn't what I want, but if the end result is already pre-determined, then is it worth all of this pain. I know that it's only the frustration talking, it's just really rough and I've been feeling so so down! Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????

Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help whywhy #2756076 08/11/17 04:28 AM
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Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,555 Likes: 90 NY	Please start a new thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2756170#Post2756170 Last edited by Cadet; 08/12/17 03:49 AM. Reason: Link Me-70, D37,S36

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