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Here's the thing, she claims she has stopped her affair and communication with the OM, but on the flip side she still won't commit to the marriage. So here I am, no commitment from her to me or the marriage but supposedly no communication with the OM.


Well, since the WW mainly operates from her emotions, I doubt she has started thinking logically........or selflessly.

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On top of that she doesn't want to discuss our R or anything else and acts content to just act like all is normal (typical roommate lifestyle).


Have you noticed anything that would indicate she is going through emotional withdrawal?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!