She already knows about this site. I don't hide anything from her. Really this is just for support and advice when needed. None of the conventional methods I have tried worked. but doing it my own way yielded the best results by far!
If you ever played a team sport and showed the opposing team your playbook this is the handicap you are now working with.
Part of the point is that some times a little mystery is a good thing.
What kind or rumors? Yes, there will be setbacks, but how you handle them is critical.
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so question on this, is it a good idea that every time I am offered to go to dinner or "hang out" I do? It will definitely be hard not to. And as long as when we do she opens up a bit I don't see any harm because real communication happens then.
I'm new to all of this and have already messed up repeatedly so any opinions help.
Messing up is totally normal in all this. Learning from how you have messed up and correcting that behavior is most important. If you have opportunities, you should take them. It gives you more opportunities to do good or to mess up. You learn from both.
Hope this helps.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
