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Hi everybody! I wanted to update my situation.
I feel the need to tell you I'm all right these days. I feel the need to tell you since you were so supportive with me, esp. Job. I'm much better with H. He went on his trip and there he seems to have thought some things out. He sent from there a message he misssed me and loved me. He has been very nice since he came back and wants to organize holidays for the whole family.
I'm taking this as positive but I'm trying not to rush things since deep inside I'm afraid he could go back to being the absent minded and detached person he was the last years.
I force myself not to bring the EA up and I have not sought to make him feel guilty. I hope that helps us get out of all the mess MLC is.

Thanks for being here

Hi Marye, that is really good news but you are sensible to remain cautious and wary of this turn around. Just take one day at a time and maybe look to do some counselling with him when the time is right so you both don't fall back into old patterns again.

Come back and let us know how you are getting on.