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Gosh CHL seems in a good mood this morning!!! Look at this IMing. I had said good morning quit a while before and we sent two or three messages, I let him know would try to find more info out on his horse. This came later and initiated by HIM!!

DLukenbill (8:46:12 AM): Tee Hee Hee.... I just went to the BB - saw a post from Sage I just had to reply to!

SharaLuke (8:46:28 AM):
SharaLuke (8:46:39 AM): I'll have to check it out.
SharaLuke (8:46:47 AM): Haven't read threads this morning.

DLukenbill (8:46:58 AM): I've barely been on BB, and haven't posted in quite a while.

SharaLuke (8:47:22 AM): and posted to Sage?
SharaLuke (8:47:24 AM): LOL

DLukenbill (8:48:11 AM): I saw she'd posted, and figured she was still doing "beat up on Sage".

SharaLuke (8:48:34 AM): Was she?

DLukenbill (8:48:49 AM): Not too bad.
DLukenbill (8:48:59 AM): She was pretty upbeat.

SharaLuke (8:49:04 AM): Good

DLukenbill (8:49:10 AM): (Better than beat up.)

SharaLuke (8:49:11 AM): I will have to read what she posted
SharaLuke (8:49:13 AM): LOL
SharaLuke (8:49:19 AM): Good point!!!

DLukenbill (8:49:21 AM): Gotta get back to work.

SharaLuke (8:49:31 AM): good luck

DLukenbill (8:49:37 AM): Think it's almost done with what I was waiting on.

Good Morning Pam!

I hope you have a wonderful day and a special weekend!

Hugs!

only cause we love ya!

Hi Pam -

Wow. YOu think you are struggling, but your posts look great - not only on your thread but the insights you are leaving elsewhere.

I justed posted to Deb too. I am worried about what she was thinking - help me keep an eye on her today okay?

Are you glad the taxes are in and done? Me too. Do you still do work for your friend for folks who filed extensions? It seems to me that you were really enjoying yourself.

Well, hope to check in later. If not, have a great weekend. I might take the kids to their first drive-in movie. Scooby Doo 2 is playing near us - what fun!

Hi Pam

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Wow. YOu think you are struggling, but your posts look great - not only on your thread but the insights you are leaving elsewhere.

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Totite said it exactly the way I was struggling to post it earlier this morning!!

You go girl!!!

Cathy

Hi PIB,

It is supposed to be beautiful weather this weekend and I am hoping to put the kids in their yard and do some house work.

I didn't do it while Jonah was feeling bad as the shells always follow me from room to room and I didn't want him doing all that moving around.

CHL may come over to discuss his horse this weekend. She is pretty seriously ill.

Hi totite,

I haven't been to a drive in movie in years!

I bet you have fun.

I am still struggling a lot. I sooo don't want a divorce.

But there is nothing I can do about that so I'm trying to figure the best way to deal with it. Sometimes I get pretty down. Today thankfully I'm not bad and trying to help Deb out some.

Hey Cathy,

Thank you for the encouragement from the Queen of Patience!

You are just sounding so great I love it.

Does anyone have any good advice on how to manage when CHL does things that remind me of J which therefore leads me to the ASSumption of all the time CHL must be spending with her?

I know he always puts his job first. But when we were dating he didn't. He put me first.

Now even with this huge project going on and supposed to wrap up tonight. He left work Thursday evening to go to the club with her rather than work to get stuff done he was complaining to me he didn't have done for tonight.

I know I need to drop this rope, it shouldn't matter at this point as in a week and a half we will be divorced.

But he doesn't act towards me like someone he is divorcing so it is hard for me to keep that in mind as to me his actions and my thinking are that he is still my h.