It't done. Not quite what I was hoping to happen but it is what it is....Now I know what to expect and how to move forward.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
I hope y'all are having a good groundhogs day. Thank god its not like the movie, I would hate to relive the hell I went through these last 8 months. I am so happy that its all over, just wish I could see the day ahead of me that I will no longer have to deal with that woman who crushed my heart with a smile on her face and left me nothing in the divorce.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
True! The outcome would likely be different for sure.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
Good grief I would not want to be in that loop again.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
She is flinging mud this morning..woah! I took S13 to see Manchester by the Sea, a though provoking movie about grief, healing, forgiveness and love. I went with my GF and him. This morning I got a text saying she is making a counselor appointment for him. She has lost control of me and is grasping for some sort of way to keep control. All it will do is make s13 angry, he is handling it very well from my perspective.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
Did your ex know about the new GF? it's a pretty new R right? I am pretty sure it doesn't have to do with the movie. It has to do with your new GF.
I was thinking along these lines, too. I'm sorry if I missed this, are you fully divorced yet?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
She knows about the GF, I have been very respectful about it, for one its really none of her business and I didn't get involved with a new lady friend for revenge so I haven't put it in her face, been really quiet about it. I am sure she asks S13 about details, that is how she found out about the movie. I have been seeing this gal for about 6 months, son has known about her but has very limited interaction with the GF. She is super nice, a good mom and also respects that its all new to my S13 so taking it slow there.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
