Believe that this depression will pass. It will as long as you don't lose faith that it will. Easier said than done, I know.
And let yourself come back in due time to those little thoughts about the house (or another, if this one doesn't work out) and what your new life might be like, FG. Those thoughts are some of the first tender shoots of healing tentatively poking their head out of the ground. They are in their own way your Soul telling you that your depression will pass, and that the future is worth waiting on.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
Give it time. Go through your grieving process and know it WILL pass, Gump.
Glad you found a place you likes. Hope you get it.
I think your idea of how to tell your kids is a good one. I wish I had other options than the way mine found out. It's going to be hard on them either way, but you're smart in the way you're handling it. Good luck!
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M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated
These mlcs are cruel creatures,most on a path to self destruct,and damage hurt a lot of good genuine people on their way threw their journey, so far My w has damaged me damaged her children, Lost her house, Lost me, Lost her best friend, Lost her dignity tottaly And still going, You can't stop them only they can, The only thing you can really do is jump ship,detach,or they will keep taking you down with them,and you can only hope they swim up before its to late
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
