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focus22- I'm new here and just read through your posts. I am sorry you've been going through all this.

Your most recent post really struck me. I feel like you and I are very similar people. I also told my coworkers about my separation a few days ago, which for me is also totally uncharacteristic. I just don't share private things like this! I felt I had to do it as a Christmas party was coming and everyone was expecting me and my spouse. I told them what was happening and had so much support. It made me feel so good sharing that pain. Do you feel it helped you, like it took some of the burden off you?

I am also a sensitive person where I can pick up on people's character and emotions very easily. People also open up to me immediately. It's a wonderful quality that you should be proud of, no matter how down in the dumps in can get you!

Take the kiss to mean a few things: you are attractive, wonderful, and worthy of love; a reminder how good it is to have positive human interactions and connections; motivation to seek out more positive energy!

I think your idea of starting classes is wonderful! I decided I would take the same approach for the new year. I'm using December as my head start. Looking up classes and enrolling, started at the gym, deciding where I will travel for my vacations this year. I can tell you, this kind of focus has been really helpful for me so far. I really do believe it will do great things for you.

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It really gave me a lot to think about as well. I hope these words are a little helpful.