H called me last night. H was having a very bad day. H confided that to me. H was feeling frustrated and angry. H did not take it out on me. I listened and validated.
This am sent H a photo of our dog lying on his new doggie bed. Hope it cheers him up a bit.
Beeped him and told him to check his email...said, hey you good looking thang...check your email. I love you.
Hopefully, that boosts his morale a bit.
Bottom line...he called me for comfort when he was having a bad day.
He just got the email...my first thought? Hope he calls me. Second thought,
Selfish, selfish, selfish!
Third thought, He's at work and having problems. Have no expectations for your own gratification when you do something nice for someone. Just hope he got a great big smile from the photo and has a better day because of it.
Fourth Thought....I am growing. I am becoming less selfish, because I'm stopping those thoughts.
Fifth Thought....Do something else nice for him today with no expectations.
I am going to buy something nice for H today. Something he would like. Am going to go to the auto parts store and really give it some thought. If that doesn't inspire me to purchase something for him, I will go to the hardware store and buy him something there. Nothing big...just a little gift that says ILY...and will tell him about it tonight.
