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Molly,

I'm very sorry about your mother.

So sorry for your loss Molly.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Thanks guys.


WSnfelt the need to let me know today that he is dating.

Gosh, Molly I am so sorry to hear all of this. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. My condolences.

I'm so sorry Molly. Right now, you need the support of your husband more than ever and he has abandoned you.
Please focus your attention on yourself and your needs right now. Eject him from your life. You need to detach now more than ever. Reach out to your friends and family. Get support from wherever you can. This will be painful on a level you can't imagine but you WILL get through it. And you will come out the other side a stronger person. Perhaps then, your H will see what he has given up. But right now, he can't be your concern. I'm praying for you.

Molly, so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences. Love, light and prayers for you.

Molly, sweetheart.

This is just so sad and tough. Really it is unfair and hurtful.

All I can say is I offer my prayers and strength. Thinking about you and your family at this very difficult time.

V

It has gotten so much worse. My half sister(who was not my mother's child) has taken it upon herself to lie, interfere, and be abusive. She told the funeral home that she was my mother's biological child and next of kin. They took her at her word and plans were made that were against my mom's wishes. It's such a mess.

WS has attempted to be supportive but is mostly feeling sorry for himself. Plus, he is already dating someone new and it just makes me not want to be around him.

I'm not sure whether I am DBing anymore or not. What's the point? Still GALing like crazy though.

Hi Molly, my heart goes out to you. Here I was feeling sorry for myself and having funny ideas on giving up on life all together. Then I saw your threat and feel like an idiot! I can't think of a harder place to be. You lost two love ones, and still GALing. You are a strong woman. I need to be like you... I want to make more friends, but yet to know how with a toddler son needing my care and no money for sitters. But if I have your strength I guess I will find a way...