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Happy Mother's Day, Kitti!

holdingon - your thread is locked so i couldn't say to you 'right back atcha' - thanks for the viewpoints on the book - i haven't gotten it yet, but i am progressing forward with it...

pib - thanks for worrying about me - yeah, i was proud of myself for dropping that rope!!!

deb - deb, your doin more than sprinting now, you are definitely RUNNING FOR YOUR LIFE!!! and that my friend is a good thing!!! watch it tho, i am catching up!!!

JOURNALING

was invited to a party a few weeks ago that was last night. i have been himmin and hawin around cause i really didn't wanna go - you know the whole strange thing of going without my husband (long story about him not going or wanting to go) but my hubby encouraged me to go and have a good time.

so i ended up taking daughter and going

i told hubby i wouldn't be gone long when i left at around 4 ...

i didn't get home until 1:30am!!! i had such a good time, the old kitti would have been so worried about hubby and getting home - but i completely dropped that rope and never gave him another thought - my daughter especially had a great time - and what a joy it is to see your children laugh and carry on

complete 180 for me and it was GOOD

hubby was awake when i got home - hehe - guess he worried about me and daughter!!! that felt nice

everyone (especially the mother's) please have a blessed day

KK,

Girl you have passed me! I may sound good here on the BB, but I still have days of the struggle!

Hugs
Deb

i found this in my email today, i had to share



IF I KNEW

If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.

There will always be another day
to say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance
to say our "Anything I can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,

That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear

Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.

Hiya Kitti Kat!

Great job on going to the party! Go YOU!

And thank you for the poem.

It reminded me of that song by Garth Brooks, "If Tommorow Never Comes"

Hugs!

thanks pib - i always need a little kudos...

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why is it the closer i get to the one year anniversary of the bomb, the less i want to post?

the 22nd can just cease to exist as far as i am concerned

thank god i am going to the beach to be with friends who have helped carry me thru this journey over the past year

i am having a little harder time with this anniversary than i thought i would

KK,

I think it's just a natural reaction. You made so many strides, you will be fine when the day comes.

The beach trip sounds great!

{{{{{kitti}}}}}
Right there with you... my anniversary was so much harder than I thought it would be... I think the emotions rise up just a bit, even if we don't want them to. H moved out a year ago on the 30th... I remember it well. Those memories don't do me any good at all. I think you have to do a memory overlay... make good memories this year to think about, and to think about next year. Do for you.

that is precisely what i am going to do

the db get together is this weekend. it is awesome that it turns out that the trip was planned during this time - cause i am going just for me, myself and i

thanks for checking in on me pattie and holdingon

Hi KK,

Miss you...

Cathy