Somehow got drawn into a conversation which ended again with me in tears and the W spitting pure venom at me. She's stated that there is no going back and up until now she'd been flexible and co-operative - she says no more!!!
I know that you're all going to say DETACHMENT, DETACHMENT, DETACHMENT...
I have been so low this weekend (even though I have my S) and have had some real dark thoughts. I'm 7 weeks on and feel just as sh!t as I did in the 1st week.
I know that I can't control what my W thinks or wants and that I need to concentrate on me, but this is such a roller coaster - am I treading the normal path here or am I making massive errors which are out of the norm?...
I'm just so lost and if I'm honest I'm frightened as to how this will turn out.
Please be kind with me and I am really struggling at the moment.
Last edited by Cadet; 10/23/1606:14 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
