Ooh yes! I'm loving the smack down club! Loving the feisty women here taking control of their life's.
Phoebe, you don't have to apologise for the feistiness. In my head I frequently tell him to go pleasure himself!
Sh, yes I'm willing to give that a go. Anything that gives me an opportunity to take control and survive this I'm willing to grab with both hands. And obviously I would love the opportunity to save my marriage. But my sanity needs to be saved first.
Time to start a new thread to I guess
Cherry, yes, sanity first and that will help you do what is needed to save the MR on your part. Detaching is good for both. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the reading and plans for taking baby steps to implement.
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Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine