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Must be good RD.

I hope your lady date is a classy girl that your sis would approve of.

Go have fun.

Once that paperwork is going strong RD, you are free as a bird.

Loving the sound of this.

V

Thank you for your wise words

Hi RD, sounds like you are moving forward my friend.....ooh a date....hope you have a lovely time - of course she finds you irresistible!! Relax & enjoy yourself xx

Good luck with the legal side of things too and know that we are all here for you if you need us.

Take care xx

Hi RD,

I really, really don't get why your W is doing this to herself, to her kids and even to her marriage.

I get when people feel miserable and look for something else outside the marriage, or just leave because it is unbearable. But leave a situation that may seen bad and get into one that is much worse is a no brainer for me.

I guess that's why I am the LBS, because I always believed in marriage and during my R I though "It will get better tomorrow".

Oh well, I guess it is her loss. Struggling throw this all, not having her kids and stuck in some delusional life she created for herself.

I am very happy that your kids are moving along. It is sure nothing easy to deal with all their pain, and even if they don't talk about, they have it deep inside their heart. But fortunately they have your support and love and can make up for some of the losses.

Now about you my friend, I am very happy you are not feeling down or struggling as much as a few months ago. Time is an amazing weapon and even with scars we feel better after some time goes by.

Happy you have a date. It is really nice you will have some time for yourself and who knows, maybe this is lady is a nice girl and came in the right moment. If not, then it is also good to find out what you do not want, or what is too little or too much.

Slow but steady, and RD will find happiness again and be loved by someone that won't give up so ease.

Please, let us know how that goes in details. I am very curious to know about it.

Love to you and kiddos,
Pink

Ah, RD, thanks for the shoulder other day. I was so down on myself that day. It was nice that you respond me so fast. I will update my page but it is all the same still.

Love as always,
Pink

Agree, can't wait to hear all about it.

Thanks all. It will just be a quiet meal and some wine , a few candles , soft music and a large white bear rug ( fake )

You know , the usual first date kind of thing

Oh and in the morning , pancakes.

Will there be a pair of Spanish guitarists serenading at the table too?? I hope you'll learn their song and join in if so....the ladies love that kind of thing....

Hope you have a nice, lighthearted time - relax and enjoy yourself xx

Wow you sassy RD, so you going with the full metal jacket attack. Weapons in place... check!!!

Eat some bacon too. It is always good some protein in the morning, specially after candles, music and a bear hug.

Keep filing us up with the details, some happy around here never hurts.

RD, like Sotto said, relax and enjoy it, you deserve. And you cheerleading team is here for you.

Love,
Pink

Ooh. I like the pancakes.

Sounds like you had fun!