Don't talk to kids until absolutely necessary. Then tell them the truth, but in a compassionatly.. Reassure them.
What is best for YOU? Personally I think that unless she commits to ending A and working on ye, you should keep moving forward with sale, or at the very least come across to W that that is what you want.
Her being hesitant is good but keep to your path. I would hear her out about her wanting to think about it.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
What does most people tell there kids about what is going on when your W is planning on moving in with there AP!
My children are 10 & 12
Advice would be good!
Check out MWD video about telling our children. I appreciate her advice. There is a lot of varying advice out there, but hers resonated with me.
I also believe that one must do it in a manner that they feel is best for them. Meditate on it. Pray about it. Be honest and do it with love and kindness no matter how you choose to do it. Do it with the best interest of the children in mind and heart.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
