You need to learn, you don't want to stay in limbo land.
Things are going good, I caught myself skipping in the passage, yes, like an 8 year old girl, skipping. Inside I know i'm happy, I know i'm making the right decisions for me.
Right now you can't see past tomorrow, but you will and when that day comes everything will be more clear. Have you set yourself daily goals yet?
My WW was crying in the shower, as I was playing in the room with our son. Normal DDJ would go in and console and ask whats wrong. Instead I 180'd and let her feel her pain. This emotional ride is hard on them too, but if you feel their pain then it will just drag you down - dealing with your own pain is hard enough.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
W has now started to complain about money, I've ask that she pay half the household bills if she is to remain in the house, until It is sold!
She agreed and now crying that she has no money and it not fair, how about its not fair that you choose to go to a bar and get involved with someone else!
She is currently rewriting history by becoming Mother Earth when she hasn't been interested in the last 18 months!
Me: 40 W: 36 T21 M17 S12 D10 D10 ILYBNILWY EA happened. PA happened. June 2016 trying to piece our M and life's back together...
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
