It's been a good couple days for me. S graduated from kindergarten yesterday. That was a great day. W and I had breakfast together before we went. She cried a lot during his ceremony and showed raw emotion. We have been getting along great. No R talk! She even asked me my opinion on changing her hair. Also she made plans with another couple for us to go out together. Even though she has been using that word "skeptical" her actions seem like they are in the right direction. Although I'm still keeping my space and not instigating anything or trying to read too much into it I've actually become kind of happy that this has happened and that it has put me on the path of the man I want to be There is a lot of things from my past that I brought to this R and I don't want to have it hanging anymore. Whether its my current marriage or one in the future, I want to be the best husband and father I can be. I want to be happy for me. This space has allowed me to do that. I'm reading The Solo Partner right now and I have learned so much about my triggers and what pushes my buttons. Although I know it can't be fixed overnight. I know that it can be fixed and that puts me in very good place
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
