Certainly going out with other men is highly inappropriate as OM2 could be or already is around the corner. But DB says to act as-if. If I say she can't, it also not my boundary, instead it is control. The same thing with the wine.
These are deal breakers that only she can drop. I have to focus on me. As for going out, last week Friday I felt emancipated to do something with and by myself. I would love her to join, but I want the time to myself for now. I'm going to be a bit stressed after she's going out Thurs and Sat, so need that time.
This morning I told her that if we're willing to make a M, a R or us work, that we must be willing to do anything. I asked her to think about what she would be willing to do to get things where they need to be so that we can move forward, together. I hope that it was not too soon.
She looked at me funnily and asked me which DDJ awoke this morning. I need to be consistent. I need to be aloof,and present.
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Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
