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I'm trying to be but no, not really.
I saw him get online, didn't think anything of it. Then went a looked at my friends list to try and find someone's name and saw he had defriended me.

Sorry to hear that Sparkls. That stings. I remember feeling the same way when my WW changed her relationship status on FB.

Try to let the moment pass. It will if you let it. I know it is easier said than done but you can do it and you will feel better for having done it. Vaya con dios.

Sparkls I know just how much that hurts. WW blocked me from her FB. It brought back all the pain, hurt and anxiety. when I realized it my stomach just dropped and my heart broke into smaller pieces. A large part of my hope just vanished.

I am so sorry you have to endure this situation. I am so sorry you have to endure this when you should be enjoying a special time in your life.

It is just so unfair to you - I let my in-laws know that I was going to block them on Facebook because I didn't want to hurt their feelings. I am mad at your H that he didn't even have the courtesy to let you know about the games or unfriending you on xbox. Seems so petty and mean because it was an activity that you shared.

If it is really bothering you, can you get out and GAL some tonight?

I am really sorry - keep detaching though. Who knows….maybe he wants to see if he can get a reaction. So, don't give him one. Just like the games - take the high road, act as if and show him that he is missing out on a really classy, smart and fun woman who likes video games, who is going to be a doctor. You are one of a kind and he is just a petty jerk right now.

Sorry to hear about the whole Xbox thing, Spark. He may be trying to get a rise out of you but you just stay cool and cm and continue being the amazing woman you are and you are becoming. H will realize what a mistake he's made on day, hopefully sooner than later.

Yeah I don't even know what is going on. And to think, I thought was being more nice than normal a few days ago. And now this.
Can't GAL, have to be up early tomorrow for school. and videogames was my GAL for the night.

I'm so very clearly not detached if something like this bothers me this much. Its gross but part of me hopes this is him trying to provoke a reaction from me. Otherwise it's just him cutting me out of his life.

So sorry, Sparkles. It hasn't been that long, so no way you could already be detached. You wouldn't be sparkles if you had already detached. Close up the xbox and take a hot shower. Hopefully, it will help calm you and you can sleep sooner tonight.

So sorry Sparkls. Try and listen to broke. Try to sleep.

I feel the same way today, Sparkls. Living 5 hours apart, and now my H has rented an apartment in a mystery location 1.5 hours north (still the same distance from me, though), an OW, a new set of friends he hid from me for a couple years that all live where his apartment is, no kids, no connection beyond our 25 years together and real estate and accounts. It's so easy for him to leave and just never see me again. I see the path between us disappearing by the minute, too.


I'm hoping for a better tomorrow for us both! Hang in there, Sparkly!

This is my H, too!! Maybe they've both been taken over by the same body snatchers?