Vapo, my gut says she wants to come back. She is just getting cold feet wether it's her own thought or outside influence? Either way doesn't matter, same result... She opens up and says things but then almost like she catches herself after a few days of "being herself". Then she pulls back to regroup.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Also, is that what you meant with you other shoe about to drop comment?
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Also, is that what you meant with you other shoe about to drop comment?
By this I mean there is usually more to the story than meets the eye. That's why it it said that the WAS is not to be trusted in what they are saying. They will lie, manipulate, fabricate, rewrite history, totally blame the LBS and us poor schmucks, we believe them that this whole situation is somehow our fault. If we only put down the toilet seat more... (and similar crappy excuses)
If your gut is telling you she wants back, you have to listen to your gut. But you will have to have the patient of a saint and above all, have no expectations (which will be hard as hell)...
Ok now I understand what you meant. I made the mistake of believing words a few months back and saw no action to back it up. These past few weeks she has owned many things. Hasn't pointed the finger at me like has been the case in the past. I also saw action on her part. It seems to me like it was too much for her too quick? (The changes she was making) now she wants to sit back and gather herself back up? Who knows, without more action at some point it doesn't change where I am in life... I'm still on the outside looking in.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
You mean not scaring the squirrel when it's eating from your hand?
If that's what you are referring to yes. I tried to follow her lead, not get ahead of her. Something did scare her, could very well have been me. All I can say is I tried to remain still...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Been sticking to my guns today. No contact initiation by me. Or any for that matter. I do find my mind wandering at times, just thinking about reaching out. Not gonna let it happen!
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
