You definately qualify as old as dirt!! LOL I don't think that chronical logical age has as much to with with things as psychological age and state of mind. Benjamin Franklin was quite a noted "ladies man" well into advanced age. I have a treatise of his ideas about women. Will have to find it and pass it on. Quite amusing.
Most of us do fantasize about ML with anyone that breathes just to feel alive again, but knowing in our hearts that we really won't do so. The temptation is so very strong and would not be hard to accomplish. Lots of willing would be partners out in the world. At least people can find us attractive. Sometimes that makes the pain of our situations all that more painful, at least it does for me.
HairDog, I hardly think 42 classifies you as ancient. Of course that might be based on my own advanced age
Funny thing is, that if you use the $300 for the grill, everytime you put some meat on it, you'll wish you'd gone the other way. If you use the $300 for the prostitute, the next day you'll wish you could grill some steaks.... really, we should be able to have both. (sex and cookouts)
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
CeMar, Yeah, I know-- as a rule the HD men here say they don't cheat. But I think that the people here, as a group, might not be representative of our genders in all ways. First thing, the HD men who are here, are here cause they are struggling with being HD and sex starved-- AND are willing to communicate and vent about it. This is different from the guys who are out getting laid.... so I think I'm asking more for what y'all have observed on average and over time, in men who you know well enough to know what really goes on.
Does that make any sense?
And, I know how miserable your sitch is making you. I lived it for so long. My life is still sort of a train wreck, but somehow it's easier to be sex starved without a naken man in the bed. Sometimes lately is scares me to realize how mad I was, how much I loathed being stuck in my marriage. Then, I get all misty about being scared to be on my own. Then I just get confused. But as much as I'm struggling, it is frighteningly apparent to me that I do not ever, ever want to even consider getting stuck in that same place again.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
<<<Lots of willing would be partners out in the world. At <<<least people can find us attractive. Sometimes that <<<makes the pain of our situations all that more painful, <<<at least it does for me.
Ding ding ding! You get the prize for getting this exactly right! At least this is how it was for me. Being rejected is bad enough. But knowing that you're not undesirable to everyone-- just the only person you're sposed to be having sex with-- makes an awful dilemna. I used to say, "it's like I'm starving to death, but you aren't hungry, so I can't have something to eat". If everyone saw you as asexual/undesirable, it wouldn't help your PMA, but at least it doesn't cause the angst of being rejected at home, while having to turn down interesting offers.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
No my dear, we are staring to death, ther is plenty of food all around us but we made a vow that WE did not break and until the cage of the M is over, will not go there.
It is so very hard to burn all day long, mind spinning like a top, feeling the anguish of need and go home to a dead soul.. Some of you do get some affirmation of your maculinity or femininity but when there is NONE, all the harder as there is not even a glimmer or a possibility of hope.
Hd, have fun with the Webber. Do you make your own BBQ sauce or prefer a commercial brand?
Two other good ones to try if you can find them: Cookies made in Iowa of all places and, Lee and Perrins made several good versions which I think has been discontinued...much to my dismay...
still wondering about how likely it is to find a HD man who will be monogomous... if I rule out those here on the board who are still sticking with their LD wives.... tell me the truth now, is there such a thing out there?
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
