I think it is very hard for mutual friends to remain that way after the split. In my case, there are no more mutual friends between us... they either went with one or the other. No hard feelings though, it is awkward for them I am sure. Hang in there. Seems like you are posting less and less which I actually take as a good thing.
I think the facebook thing is a heart breaker. I am never on facebook so its not an issue, I don't think you need to unfriend her just change your settings so that her feed does not show up on your page.
The mutual friend thing stings, Its happening to me as well but with the inlaws. They were my family and now I am an outsider.
Hopefully with your GAL you can meet new people? I haven't made new friends that way yet, but its a start
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
I missed the FB comment. I think I told you before, but you have to unfollow her at the very least. Why put yourself through that? I blocked my WW as soon as she took 'married' down from there. I have zero regrets about doing that. Then I had to unfollow some mutual friends just so that I didn't see pictures of her or anything.
I think this is the first time I've posted on your thread. Just wanted to say I'm sorry for your sitch. Our timing is very similar and my H has filed for D, so I'm headed in same direction as you and it's very difficult. Wanted to say I'm pulling for you.
Also wanted to add my two cents about Facebook. I waited a very long time, but I had to block my H, the OW and all of my in-laws. Just too painful to see what they were posting. I gently explained it to my BIL. Haven't regretted it once. That would be my advice. No need to add to your sadness. Stay strong.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
