Are you going with this person because you like her and your doing it for you, or to upset your EX. That's not so good. You might be doing something you will regret?
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)
NYGal...sounds like you are doing awesome with GAL! I think it's great that you're going to the game with a friend. Go and have a fabulous time and let W eat her heart out (since we already know she is affair-ing down.
This ^^^^^^^ NYGal! This times a thousand. Have a great time
And Anna. W is soooo affair-ing down. And we are not just saying that because you're "down with out DR crew" either.
Enjoy!
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Are you going with this person because you like her and your doing it for you, or to upset your EX. That's not so good. You might be doing something you will regret?
She's at least 30 years younger than I am! No one would be fooled into thinking there's anything going on. I'm doing it for me so I don't have to sit alone. I won't regret it. In fact, I feel really good about it. (smile)
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Ok I know sometimes I need guidance, I seem to do the wrong thing sometimes and need a bit of counselling on this stuff. Just looking out for you mate!
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)
Thanks, AU. If you knew me, you'd know that your concern is justified!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
There goes W past my window, looking up at me with a goofy grin. Right on schedule. Just like the Louisa in The African Queen. Does anybody get that reference?
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
She's at least 30 years younger than I am! No one would be fooled into thinking there's anything going on. I'm doing it for me so I don't have to sit alone. I won't regret it. In fact, I feel really good about it. (smile)
Psshh...you could totally pull off having a much younger woman. Not that you would...because you love W, but...still. You are fabulous, remember?
That's right, thanks Annab! Good thing I took my age off my signature!
So, after W walked by my window and looked up at me and our eyes met... I sent her a text: "I saw you!" She wrote back: "Sorry. I didn't mean to stalk." With a smiley face. I sent a red - cheeked smiley face back. Then she called me. I answered. Her: I guess I did mean to stalk you. Me: I can't say I'm offended. Then we talked about more mundane house stuff that seemed more like an excuse on her part to talk. Then she said, well, it was nice to hear your voice. Me: it was nice to hear your voice, too, honey. Damn, I wish I had left out the honey part.
So then my friend arrived at the restaurant for dinner. We had a nice time and I think she has no idea that W and I are apart. I felt a little like a fraud, but thankfully it didn't even come up. On the way home I just sobbed all the way. Dinner with this friend just reminds me of the old days when the four of us would get together and everything was normal. Then the friend texted and said, are you ok? You seemed sad. (So much for my Academy Award performance.) I assured her that I'm OK and yes, I'll see you at the game tomorrow.
What a day.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Putting my hands on your shoulders and looking into your eyes
Look, NYG...you've got to stop running to W every time she walks by your office and your eyes lock (or whatever). Next time it happens, DO NOT react...do not run outside to see her, do not text her, do not send smoke signals....
Seriously.
When you two do lock eyes the next time for a W sighting, then you turn around and get back to your workstation. Let your W stare at your back head. Be less available. In fact, I am now faced with the same exact thing with one of the three women that I like and one is acting like a really badass who is acting like she isn't giving me the time of the day. It's driving me batty!!! I swear that this hot girl is DBing me..not the other way around. Ha. [I'm not kidding about the "hot girl" because comments have run the gamut of "you're really hot!", "you should be a model", etc on some certain social media. That's all I am going to say here.
Do you see what I am driving at here, NYG?
Go dark. What did you not hear about this advice a while ago??! How can we get this through to you?
I swear that this hot girl is DBing me..not the other way around. Ha.