Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums Midlife Crisis False Thinking

Job is a success story,

don't let the out come of her marriage fool you.

If you read the homework I gave you in the resources for newcomers there is a link to Mozza's thread that has some of the current stories.
Also pinned to the top of this board is more.

HI

Yes to everything Job said

You do not see a lot of success stories posted but I hear stories about reconciliation from friends or acquaintances
It definitely is possible It usually takes time

I have one very good friend right now whose XH is repeatedly asking to get back together
She does not want to but they are becoming good friends and talking a lot so it may be in the future..her xh left in a tailspin about 7 years ago in what looked like MLC to me

It seems most beneficial for the LBS to use this time to grieve and let go
as we move on with our lives..keeping a door open for the MLCer for friendship or support..you never know
I know it is so hard in the start, but time does heal and most LBS seem to create new and better lives either with the Mlcer or with another..
hang in