I went to bed early and am rested but physically exhausted. Hard work never killed anyone but it sure can slow you down.
Thank you V, understood. Roiste, I spoke with her about it weeks ago and it did get better. She says little and shares less. She has emotional divorced me. Thanks for thinking of me though. Grlonfr, I think you are right on detachment. I also feel that I have grow tired of talking about the same old thing.
I want my marriage to work, I just don't have confidence it will. This is around 100 posts on this thread. I will start another thread this afternoon.