11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
It was a Star Wars reference. I had a vision of you chasing the house pets around the house with a lightsaber like Darth Vader. The dark side gives Darth Vader the power he has. I hope I did not offend you, if so I'm sorry.
Gmum! Yes, I feel like I have pets on my head for company when I am all alone in the apartment at night. Domesticated pets, or have they domesticated me?
I am going to undergo a more intensive course of lotions on the head. My hair is pretty much fried but better fried hair than lice. Head doesn't seem so itchy though, so I am really praying that this will be the end of the saga.
I really need my life back.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
Had a rather unpleasant convo with the X, again. Texted and asked if I could borrow his washer as I needed hot water cycles for the laundry. His reply? To go to the laundry shop, even when I explained that I have spent a bomb on getting rid of the lice. The ensuing phone call, which he promptly picked up, was a continuation of the unpleasantry, if there's such a word.
In the end, he did very unwillingly offer to pick up the laundry from me, but I was so stung by the fact that I was not to go anywhere near the apartment that I decided that I would resolve the issue on my own.
My gf told me later that I should never have bothered. And he probably thought that I was using it as an excuse to cling onto him. Big ouch!
So it's really true that I should have zilch expectations of him as a decent human being. It's nice when he is, but I really shouldn't expect more from him.
Later, I started missing kid so I texted to ask him if kid was asleep and if I could call to speak to kid. The X called after some time and asked where he was supposed to pick kid up the next day. I was still smarting from the unpleasant exchange in the afternoon and replied rather icily as I had already texted him the location.
Felt bad after that and then texted him to thank him for getting kid to speak to me. In the morning texted him to remind him to pack food for kid's recess (he had forgotten) and to pass me kid's laundry so that I wash and dry them in time. No reply at all. I am going to wait till later then call him again if there's no reply because I really need kid's stuff by tomorrow.
I realise that it's quite a lot of texts but except for the loan of the washer, the texts were all about kid. He used to reply with an 'ok' but now he doesn't even bother.
I must bite my tongue and speak in my sweetest voice and learn how to STFU.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
It must be very disappointing to have this type of relationship with a spouse, one you have a child with. I am sorry this part of your life Grlonfr. Be well
